Let her know that you have some sort of standards, and she fits them just fine.
This bear is surprisingly large and huggable at 16" sitting and very soft and plush.
He's made with a very comfortable high quality PV fleece material with 13mm pile height and an embroidered message on a heart just as soft. What does this mean? It means your lover(s) gonna want to rub it on their face all night. Maybe spray it with your own scent so they think of you while they do that.
Disclaimer: The last suggestion will be less creepy if they actually know who you are.